Dancing With The Devil

Your awesome Tagline

0 notes

"Why are women so confusing???"

The age old question. A lot of guys these days stumble over “how to get a girl to like you”, or “how to hook up with girls”. Or even “why do girls always go for the jerkoff of a guy, rather than someone who treats her with respect?” Well here’s a new one-how do you even interact with a girl to begin with? Hear me out:

Say you’re grabbing a quick bite to eat at a small place. A guy you think is attractive walks in and sits alone at a table. I bet 93% of women wouldn’t even consider going up to him to talk. Instead, they’d rather sit and hope he makes the first move. Why so hesitant?

Society kinda tells us that “women are extremely hesitant, indecisive, and will be judged no matter what you say or do”. A lot (NOT all) definitely are indecisive and hesitant when it comes to certain things, such as MALES! If I could change one thing, it would be for you guys to just be up front and honest about how you really feel. We can take it. If you’re going to be an assholes about, then we can do that too, but being politely honest goes a long way.

Here’s another question-why can’t a guy compliment you without being labeled as “thirsty”, or assumed to be complimenting for the sake of something else? It just doesn’t make sense to me, at all. Before you get TOO flustered, I get it. I’ve seen it myself. There are a lot of lying, manipulative guys out there. It’s. Shame they give us all a bad name. But just because there are some, doesn’t mean we are ALL like that. All women aren’t sluts because of the few working the streets at night. All women aren’t weak just because they can’t bench press the same amount of weight as males can. You’re a woman and I treat you like one, without any stereotypes or previous assumptions made. I can only ask that you do the same for me.

And lastly,

This whole “friend zone” bull shit has to stop. In the past I’ve had a few female friends come to me for advice with relationships/potential relationships. They’ll cry a bit, I’ll help them go through all the positives and negatives, and eventually she came to her own conclusions about what to do. So basically, I’m thrown into the friend zone just for literally being a shoulder to cry on? How is that even…if I say “no, I can’t help you” while you’re sitting there crying, I then become and asshole. But if I help, I become a friend and nothing more. See how that’s confusing?

Like I said before, the more honest you can be with people, the better of you’ll be in the long run. Honesty is a dying characteristic, and that is a terrifying thought. Be polite, be honest, and be happy.

0 notes

tumblrbot asked: WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER WHEN YOU ARE IN A BAD MOOD?

Going straight to the music on my phone. Lifesaver. I don’t know how people can survive without music

0 notes

Selfishness is the downfall of us all. That is why the honest, thoughtful person is quickly fading from our world.

0 notes

A girl perceives herself as a princess and believes people should treat her like so. She is entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore expects more than she appreciates. A woman has standards (what she holds herself to), not expectations (what she projects towards others).

533,231 notes

star-spoopywholock-trek:

tarantallegra:

findingmyrecovery:

Wanted to share this helpful tool with anyone who needs it. A lot of people have a hard time putting their feelings into words and identifying what emotions they are feeling. This is called a feeling wheel. It can help you get to the core emotion you are experiencing and help you name each feeling when you’re overwhelmed with many emotions

this is so cool

THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT

star-spoopywholock-trek:

tarantallegra:

findingmyrecovery:

Wanted to share this helpful tool with anyone who needs it. A lot of people have a hard time putting their feelings into words and identifying what emotions they are feeling. This is called a feeling wheel. It can help you get to the core emotion you are experiencing and help you name each feeling when you’re overwhelmed with many emotions

this is so cool

THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT

(via hakinamatataalways)